I had tried absolutely everything to take off the weight I had gained on Zoloft, coupled with a thyroid imbalance AND perimenopause symptoms!!!   Nothing worked.  Well, I’ve been taking Sam-e every morning on an empty stomach for about 3 months now and I’ve lost 12 lbs. without changing anything else! I do always try to eat right though, and stick to my low calorie foods list.   Although recently, I’ve allowed myself to live it up a little since it’s my birthday!  And I still lost weight.  This hasn’t happened since my twenties!

My theory is since Sam-e is so good for your liver, this is an indirect benefit of a better functioning liver!  My body is metabolizing more efficiently because my liver isn’t so congested.  I just feel so much better in every way.  My husband has been taking it too now, but for only a week and he said he’s noticed a great improvement in his well-being.

Sam-e is a naturally occurring substance found in our body and tends to decline as we get older.  It promotes the balance and availability of the neurotransmitters serotonin and dopamine, which makes you feel happy.  It’s great for depression.  It’s also great for the liver because it normalizes liver enzymes. My girlfriend’s accupuncturist put her on Sam-e to bring her out of the woods from hepatitis -and it did!  She’s the same woman who told me to start taking it when I was detoxing from prescription antidepressants -and I felt better in 48 hours!  It’s worked for us and I encourage  anyone to try Sam-e first before going on anti-depressants.  It’s a great supplement for the symptoms of menopause or pre menopause symptoms.  I have read that a good liver contributes to virtually zero menopause symptoms!  Since using Sam-e I have alleviated my menopausal symptoms.  For me, that’s certainly worth it!

Mood swings have been the worst for me.   I have gotten it to when they only show up a few days before my period, but that’s even too much for me because those days leave me a wreck!    I feel absolutely wonderful, then I can feel it coming like a downward spiral, taking me deeper and deeper into a dark abyss.  The worst part is even though I have warned my family, every time it happens they look at me like I’m some horrible person.  I don’t want to be moody and irritable, but sometimes I can’t help it.  It surprises me as much as it does them.  When these moods come on all I want to do is get on a plane and go somewhere far, far away until the real me returns.

It use to be much worse.  I use to feel irritable and moody three-quarters of the month.  My thyroid also had a lot to do with it and then perimenopause symptoms  made  it worse.    I have found ways to deal with these on slaughts of darkness, but it has been a long, hard road.

When I started complaining to my ob-gyn, she told me I had pre menopause symptoms and gave me a presecription for Prozac.  I was suppose to take it 7 days before my period started.  I only lasted 2 days.   The headaches this drug gave me were incredible and I had to stop.  Then she prescribed me Zoloft and I felt like I had died and gone to heaven.  Nothing could rock my world and it was smooth sailing.  That is until I gained 20 pounds seemingly overnight, and nothing I would do could make it disappear.   I then was given Wellbutrin to lose the weight, and it wreaked havoc on my mind.  I stuck it out as long as I could -5 days before I had to stop.  I thought I was going to kill either myself or somebody else.  It was the absolute scariest experience of my life!  The detox from that experience lasted 2 weeks and was awful.

My acupuncturist recommended I take Sam-e to balance my hormonesand clean my liver of all the prescription drugs I had been taking.  It has worked beautifully.  I feel a peace and happiness I hadn’t felt in a long time, the weight is coming off, and I feel good knowing this supplement is good for my liver.  I will never, repeat never take a prescription antidepressant again.  There are far more gentle ways to balance your neurotransmitters and hormones for the menopausal symptoms of depression and moodiness.

A great book to read is by Julia Ross called the Mood Cure.  She explains in great detail the workings of the brain and how to balance it with amino acids.  Black Cohosh is also suppose to work great in balancing the hormones.  I personally take 400 mg of Sam-E a day with a B-complex vitamin first thing in the am before I eat breakfast.  It has worked magic on me and I know my family appreciates it!  You don’t have to suffer from the symptoms of menopause.

What Is Menopause?

Menopause is the end of a woman’s fertile childbearing years.  Dr. Christian Northrup believes a woman is entering her age of wisdom.  Many believe with this comes freedom from periods, worrying about getting pregnant etc…   I believe there would be more feelings of freedom if the symptoms of menopause  weren’t so awful sometimes.  Menopause doesn’t just happen one day.  There is about a 10 year transition period from normal menstrual periods to no periods at all for one year.  This is when many women complain of menopausal symptoms.    During this period called perimenopause some women have pre  menopause symptoms and some don’t.  The latter ones are the lucky ones.  Every woman is different.

What Causes Perimenopause Symptoms?

Often, how well a woman took care of her body and emotions during her life determines how smoothly she will sail through menopause. Many times nutrient deficiencies and stress are to blame.  Women who had PMS will typically have a worse go of it.  The physical and emotional perimenopause symptoms may leave you irritable, sleepless, moody, over weight with hot flashes, yeast infections and memory loss!  The average age a woman enters menopause is 51, but she can start much sooner that that.  Many women will enter perimenopause in their late 30’s to early 40’s.  I did.  Smokers may enter it 1-2 years earlier than they would have if they didn’t smoke.  Another good reason to quit.

Perimenopause is difficult because the symptoms can mimic other diseases.  Issues with the thyroid are very common in perimenopause,and if you are gaining weight, depressed and irritable, you should have your thyroid and thyroid antibodies checked.

Following the birth of my son at 39, I started getting very irritable, gained 15 pounds, and was very depressed.  I went misdiagnosed for 4 years until a compounding pharmacist, of all people, read my blood test and told me it looked like I had a thyroid problem.  I had been to 3 doctors and not one of them was able to help me.  It turned out the pharmacist was right.   I had Hashimoto’s, an autoimmune disease where your body thinks your thyroid is a foreign invader and starts attacking it.  My doctors dismissed me and my symptoms as perimenopause, offered  me an antidepressant and told me to go home. Well, by the time I finally got my thyroid correctly diagnosed, I was entering into perimenopause as well.  I got a double whammy! This has started me on a journey of discovery.  A path that has opened my eyes to the world of alternative medicine and the importance of vitamins and minerals.    I believe doctors have their place, but I sure wish they had the desire to dig deeper and discover why something is happening and actually fix it.  Many symptoms of PMS and fibroids can be helped by simple nutrition.  I think it’s important women talk about menopause and help each other.  We can learn from each other’s experiences and not waste valuable time.  Many of us need to take our health care into our our own hands.  I spent so much time and money getting nowhere with  the medical community.   Time in my life I felt miserable that I can’t get back.  This blog is written to share what worked  for me.  It way not help anyone else, but then again, maybe it will.  I hope so.